Wednesday, February 26, 2014

First time in 22 years...

It was the long awaited day, a day I had unknowingly been dreading my entire life; my first birthday away from my twin sister.
On Saturday, the youth began to sing happy birthday, without thinking I joined along to sing happy birthday to my sister. I realized I was singing happy birthday to no one.  I didn’t feel sad it just felt really odd knowing that everyone was singing specifically and ONLY to me. That feeling of being the center of attention during the song had never occurred to me. I have always shared the “spot light.”
On my birthday we took our boat out to the ocean! We set out on a three hour tour… Wait no… we didn’t…. We set out on an adventure. On our way out we enjoyed tubing behind the boat, watched flocks of Scarlet Ibis fly by, and enjoyed the cool breeze as we sped along the river.
We reached our destination in the early afternoon. Not only were we at the ocean, but there was actually a beach!  After “parking” the boat everyone unloaded our picnic and we sat down to eat. I enjoyed fresh squeezed orange juice, homemade “manapua” (biscuits with filling inside), perfect papaya, and molasses cookies! Our stomachs were full so we decided to walk the beach. I loved the feeling of having my feet in the sand. As we walked some sets of waves came in and the ocean was so tempting. I had to go in! There is something about just being in the water that just feels right. I can’t explain it… But, I’m sure it is a feeling that others understand. While I was in my bubble of happiness I mentioned to one of the others that I couldn’t be any happier. Then a tour boat came in with a group of local nurses and doctors. One of them had never seen the ocean before! He was ecstatic! He was definitely happier than I, but his happiness just multiplied my happiness. We had to leave the beach before 5:00 pm because the sand flies would come out. If it wasn’t for those flies I could have stayed there for hours more.

On our way back we ran into a tropical rain down poor. We got soaking wet and freezing cold. Who ever thought I would need full blast heat here in Guyana. We piled into the car and made it a sauna. A nice warm soup with homemade crackers was a welcome site when I arrived at home. Finally, at the end of the day, I was able to call my sister and wish her a happy birthday.  Our first birthday apart was easier that both of us expected. Thanks to the people around us we felt celebrated and loved.

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